Relationship and Psychology
No more drama!
Relationships: importance of courtship
Once a cheater, always a cheater?
Temporary marriage: answer or cop out?
Pros and cons of dating a younger man
Talk to your ex – for the children’s sake!
When he won't introduce you to his family
The best gift for your partner this Christmas
How to make a holiday romance last
Relationships: Great Expectations
Why nobody wins at emotional games
Facebook etiquette: dos and dont's
The Tao of Relationships: role reversal
The relationship comfort zone
Does love ever hurt?
The Tao of relationships: sanctuary
The rules of engagement
How to live with a controlling partner
Decoding body language
Be the hostess with the mostest
Comfortable or lazy?
All in an Ice cream Spoon
Do you have trust issues?
The Tao of Relationships: Facing the inevitable
The best gift for your partner this Christmas
The best gift you can give your partner this Christmas is to make them a RAVING FAN of you!

Make it your goal this festive season to find out what you partner really needs and then find as many ways as you can to meet those needs.

I learned something very handy about my wife; I would do some things for her and not get the response I hoped for. For a little while it made me feel unappreciated and that I was wasting my time; I wanted to just do nothing at all since what I was doing wasn’t working.

Typical, lazy human.

When I started to pay attention I realised that she would light up when I told her that I loved her, or if I gave her a hug. I realised that before I wasn’t giving her what she needed, but what I thought she needed.

I wonder how many couples fall into this trap

He brings you flowers, but what you need is time alone with him; or, he spends all his time with you, but what will do it for you is a dozen roses.

You smile and pretend gratitude, but deep down you feel short changed. Do you know that this one small thing can compound over time and become a BIG resentment?

So, do your partner a favour and tell him what you need

Expect him to figure it out and you may be waiting a long time. The same goes for you; pay attention; what language does he understand? A word? A touch? A gift? Your time? I know for me it’s a gift.

“But,” you may argue, “What if I do that and get nothing in return?”

Well firstly, if that’s reason you are doing it, then you are already in trouble; secondly, have you seen raving fans on TV? They will do anything for their idols. If your partner is a normal human being, he is hardwired to respond when his needs are being met.

I can always tell when a couple are headed for trouble when one, or both, of them start complaining about what their partner isn’t doing, or is doing wrong. I say stop it. Get busy meeting your partner’s needs and trust him to want to do the same.

Love in the time of texting
Is he into you?
10 benefits of marriage counselling
How to get through a break up
Relationships: say it how you want it
How to tell if someone is lying
He cheated: keep him or dump him?
Let him love you
Love lines: the emotional rollercoaster
Dating after divorce as a single mom
How to stop being taken advantage of
Love Lines: Still sleeping with ex!
Relationships: when to turn a blind eye
Living together: a dry run for marriage?
Love Lines: forbidden Love - the younger man
Pay attention to negative feelings
Stop domestic violence
How to survive long distance
Trusting again after being cheated on
Is three a crowd? Relationships and children
How to find a man who won't cheat
Love Lines: can this marriage be saved?
How to end an emotional affair
Make new friends in 30 minutes
Your relationship after illness
The 10 biggest turn-offs: are you guilty?
Legal implications of living together
Lovelines: emotionally distant husband
Men really ARE from Mars - survey
Dealing with gossip
When your boyfriend's a mommy's boy...
Who gets the friends in a breakup?
Is he the one? Choosing Mr. Right
Losing touch in a technological world
How to make every day Valentine’s Day
Relationships: repeating your mistakes?
Relationships: acknowledging your part
Dr. Demartini on Valentine's Day pressures
What is emotional abuse?
I love to be single
On hooking up with your ex
Flirting’s effect on your body
Should you marry him?
How to compile your family tree
Love Lines: relationship advice for readers
Can men and women be just friends?
The benefits of having male friends
How to become a better listener
Emotional affairs: another form of cheating?
Is it ever ok to be the other woman?
Losing your guy to SuperSport
Dating an older man
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