Relationship and Psychology
No more drama!
Relationships: importance of courtship
Once a cheater, always a cheater?
Temporary marriage: answer or cop out?
Pros and cons of dating a younger man
Talk to your ex – for the children’s sake!
When he won't introduce you to his family
The best gift for your partner this Christmas
How to make a holiday romance last
Relationships: Great Expectations
Why nobody wins at emotional games
Facebook etiquette: dos and dont's
The Tao of Relationships: role reversal
The relationship comfort zone
Does love ever hurt?
The Tao of relationships: sanctuary
The rules of engagement
How to live with a controlling partner
Decoding body language
Be the hostess with the mostest
Comfortable or lazy?
All in an Ice cream Spoon
Do you have trust issues?
The Tao of Relationships: Facing the inevitable
When your boyfriend's a mommy's boy...
So, your boyfriend’s a great guy. Yes, really he is. But here’s the rub – he’s a ‘mommy’s boy’, and he has the possessive, not to say obnoxious, mother to prove it. Are you and your relationship doomed for life?

The good news answer to this question is a resounding NO. Of course not.

The bad news is that it will take some concerted effort and planning, as well as a good bit of persistence, and you will have to do all of the conscious work. But the ends will justify the means. Here’s our advice:

Make a friend of your ‘mom-in-law’

What? She hates you? You hate her? Back up a minute and think about where she’s coming from. Learn to understand her. Why is she really being so bitchy and unreasonable? What is driving her to push every one of your buttons she can find? In a word – fear.

She’s scared to death. Her darling son, her baby (her emotional security blanket), is trying to detach. So, does she feel threatened? Is she jealous? Of course! And how does she deal with it? Well…you get the picture.

For example, is ‘mom’ really hung up about food and cooking? Well, instead of trying to compete, heap her with praises, and ask her to cook for you too. Maybe even teach you how to make a favourite dish. Benefit? Well, you’ve probably scored a pretty good meal, without having to go through all the fuss yourself.

Bigger benefit? You’ve diffused a major issue, while she is none the wiser.

A critical piece of the puzzle is to learn how to keep your cool

Don’t rise to the bait when she comments on your cooking, your housekeeping, your taste in clothes, or your lifestyle. Don’t badmouth her to others. No matter how hard it seems, remember the old maxim ‘you’re not losing a son – you’re gaining a daughter’. Take the attitude that now you’re both concerned with the care and love of her son.

Draw on her experience

Since she has such a wealth of experience, and you are new to the game, just like with cooking, praise her and solicit her help and advice. What do you get out of it? You’ll save your poor boyfriend from feeling like a ping pong ball, batted back and forth between the two women in his life.

Is this relationship important to you? As you can see, by keeping your wits about you, you can turn it into a win-win situation for all concerned.

Love in the time of texting
Is he into you?
10 benefits of marriage counselling
How to get through a break up
Relationships: say it how you want it
How to tell if someone is lying
He cheated: keep him or dump him?
Let him love you
Love lines: the emotional rollercoaster
Dating after divorce as a single mom
How to stop being taken advantage of
Love Lines: Still sleeping with ex!
Relationships: when to turn a blind eye
Living together: a dry run for marriage?
Love Lines: forbidden Love - the younger man
Pay attention to negative feelings
Stop domestic violence
How to survive long distance
Trusting again after being cheated on
Is three a crowd? Relationships and children
How to find a man who won't cheat
Love Lines: can this marriage be saved?
How to end an emotional affair
Make new friends in 30 minutes
Your relationship after illness
The 10 biggest turn-offs: are you guilty?
Legal implications of living together
Lovelines: emotionally distant husband
Men really ARE from Mars - survey
Dealing with gossip
When your boyfriend's a mommy's boy...
Who gets the friends in a breakup?
Is he the one? Choosing Mr. Right
Losing touch in a technological world
How to make every day Valentine’s Day
Relationships: repeating your mistakes?
Relationships: acknowledging your part
Dr. Demartini on Valentine's Day pressures
What is emotional abuse?
I love to be single
On hooking up with your ex
Flirting’s effect on your body
Should you marry him?
How to compile your family tree
Love Lines: relationship advice for readers
Can men and women be just friends?
The benefits of having male friends
How to become a better listener
Emotional affairs: another form of cheating?
Is it ever ok to be the other woman?
Losing your guy to SuperSport
Dating an older man
Visit Statistics