Relationship and Psychology
No more drama!
Relationships: importance of courtship
Once a cheater, always a cheater?
Temporary marriage: answer or cop out?
Pros and cons of dating a younger man
Talk to your ex Ė for the childrenís sake!
When he won't introduce you to his family
The best gift for your partner this Christmas
How to make a holiday romance last
Relationships: Great Expectations
Why nobody wins at emotional games
Facebook etiquette: dos and dont's
The Tao of Relationships: role reversal
The relationship comfort zone
Does love ever hurt?
The Tao of relationships: sanctuary
The rules of engagement
How to live with a controlling partner
Decoding body language
Be the hostess with the mostest
Comfortable or lazy?
All in an Ice cream Spoon
Do you have trust issues?
The Tao of Relationships: Facing the inevitable
Let him love you
Are your insecurities preventing you from accepting the love of a good man?

He is ambitious. He is mature and emotionally stable. Look around: you donít find his kind around every corner. It gets better. He is respectful, keeps his word and has established balance in his own life while remaining supportive to you and your own dreams.

He seems like a great man; the kind any woman would want to be with. Now heís standing right in front of you and he wants to love you. So why on earth wonít you let him?
Do you feel unworthy of love?

Insecurities cheat us out of what we want, need, and sometimes deserve. Theyíre a part of our lives which we probably wouldnít be able to adequately address by reading through a self-help book - even if itís one of those best-selling ones.

A low self esteem may have resulted from previous disappointing relationships, your work situation, or it can go as far back as an incident in pre-school. It continues in its unhealthy downward spiral as you experience various situations in life which affirm your feelings of unworthiness.
Are you keeping your walls high and impenetrable?

Itís difficult for some to reveal who they really are to others. Itís always safer under our shells. But like the tortoise, it will take us ages to get where we want to be. Iím personally drawn to the power that keeping my feelings to myself gives me. That way Iím not vulnerable and I gain that sense of ďI-wonít-LET-you-hurt-me.Ē

At first glance it doesnít seem like a bad coping mechanism but when you start missing out on the finer things in life, some major revaluation is necessary.
Stop it, I like it!

Every now and then we meet people who make us look at life differently. Iím not even talking about the corny 'he lights up my life' stuff. Iím talking about a sense of stability. Itís the kind of harmony that youíve probably been seeking but have failed to find until now.

You enjoy being around him and you respect the person that he is. One side of you wants to hold onto him for dear life, but the idea that heís too good for you (and that you donít deserve a love like this) creeps in. Thatís when you push him away.
We all deserve to be loved

If the man in your life has proven himself deserving of your affection, you should let him love you. Even if you donít see it, there are things that draw people to you; attributes that this good man cannot resist.

He doesnít love you because he thinks youíre flawless. In fact, if love was a privilege reserved for those who have shown no record of imperfection, it wouldnít exist. One of the traits of a quality man is his ability to sense a quality woman. Youíre his quality woman.
Heís not perfect either

Itís important not to put him on a pedestal. He might hurt you himself at some point. We experience a kaleidoscope of emotions every day. Getting hurt is part of human relationships. Your parents, your siblings and your friends all have the power to hurt you. Sometimes they do it without selfish or harsh intent.

As much as it is important to love and be loved, you shouldnít give people the power to destroy you and your self esteem. Anyone can hurt you but not everyone has the power to completely uproot your life. Stop framing every relationship with feelings of inadequacy and doom and just let a good man give you some good loving.

Love in the time of texting
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10 benefits of marriage counselling
How to get through a break up
Relationships: say it how you want it
How to tell if someone is lying
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Dating after divorce as a single mom
How to stop being taken advantage of
Love Lines: Still sleeping with ex!
Relationships: when to turn a blind eye
Living together: a dry run for marriage?
Love Lines: forbidden Love - the younger man
Pay attention to negative feelings
Stop domestic violence
How to survive long distance
Trusting again after being cheated on
Is three a crowd? Relationships and children
How to find a man who won't cheat
Love Lines: can this marriage be saved?
How to end an emotional affair
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Your relationship after illness
The 10 biggest turn-offs: are you guilty?
Legal implications of living together
Lovelines: emotionally distant husband
Men really ARE from Mars - survey
Dealing with gossip
When your boyfriend's a mommy's boy...
Who gets the friends in a breakup?
Is he the one? Choosing Mr. Right
Losing touch in a technological world
How to make every day Valentineís Day
Relationships: repeating your mistakes?
Relationships: acknowledging your part
Dr. Demartini on Valentine's Day pressures
What is emotional abuse?
I love to be single
On hooking up with your ex
Flirtingís effect on your body
Should you marry him?
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Can men and women be just friends?
The benefits of having male friends
How to become a better listener
Emotional affairs: another form of cheating?
Is it ever ok to be the other woman?
Losing your guy to SuperSport
Dating an older man
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